Monday, December 27, 2010
Friday, November 5, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Geeking Out
I feel the need to share these things and I get tired of posting on Facebook. Click on any images to enlarge.
1) Super Hero Cake
I WANT this cake! Anyone reading, feel free to make this for my 26th birthday
(November 12th... just in case). ;) I do feel like the Green Lantern needs to be shown on here some how though. It's just not right for the Emerald Knight to be missing...
Here's another geeky birthday cake I thought was pretty funny. I saw this awhile ago and have had the picture saved on my computer for awhile.
1) Super Hero Cake
I WANT this cake! Anyone reading, feel free to make this for my 26th birthday(November 12th... just in case). ;) I do feel like the Green Lantern needs to be shown on here some how though. It's just not right for the Emerald Knight to be missing...
2) Html Cake
Here's another geeky birthday cake I thought was pretty funny. I saw this awhile ago and have had the picture saved on my computer for awhile.3) Lego Matrix
4) The Evolution of the Geek
Which Geek Are You?
5) Atari Wall Decals (ThinkGeek.com)
6) Lego USB Memory Brick (ThinkGeek.com)
You can even stack 'em :)
6) Lego USB Memory Brick (ThinkGeek.com)
You can even stack 'em :)7) Crayon Executive Pen (ThinkGeek.com)
Ballpoint pen that looks like a giant crayon!
Ballpoint pen that looks like a giant crayon!8) 8-Bit Hanger (ThinkGeek.com)
Bringing your 2D User Interface into the real world
9) Laser Guided Scissors
10) His & Hers Chromosome Towels
Geeky Housewarming or Wedding Gift - Discount at ThinkGeek.com if you buy a set (in any combination)
Bringing your 2D User Interface into the real world
9) Laser Guided Scissors
10) His & Hers Chromosome Towels
Geeky Housewarming or Wedding Gift - Discount at ThinkGeek.com if you buy a set (in any combination)11) World's First Robot Pop Star
For an article on it, click here
12) A Ring to Rule All Geeks
13) Geeking Out for Halloween
14) Marvel Superheroes Re-Imagined in the World of TRON!
13) Geeking Out for Halloween
14) Marvel Superheroes Re-Imagined in the World of TRON!
For more, go here.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Is Art Essential?
"See those people standing on the side of the road? The ones with the cardboard signs and are asking for spare change? Yeah, those people were Art majors."That is what I was told by a friend when they first found out what I was in school for. Yes, it's still somewhat funny... I even retorted with, "Sure, but I'll have the best damn looking sign out there!"
I get tired of the pessimists though. Those that only think of practical solutions, instead of fulfilling their dreams. "Teacher" is an acceptable answer for the "What are you going to do with an Art degree?" question... by the way... in case you didn't know. See, the fact that you are even considering art as a career path worries the pessimists. Say that you are going to just BE an artist... well now... you might as well get use to your significant other having to take care of you for the rest of your life. There's no way you'd be able to become successful enough to support yourself, let alone a whole freakin' family!
It's true that many who try to break into the art world don't become as successful or famous as they may have dreamed, but isn't it better that they at least gave it a shot?
Now, there are people who ask about your career goal just genuinely wanting to know, but there are others who, even after giving them your (well rehearsed, lawyer-esque) closing statement... I mean, explanation, still believe your chosen path to be a waste of time and money - especially money.
As an artist, and a mediocre one at that, I will always believe art to be an essential part of life. Not just for myself, but for everyone around me. Everyone within our society, our culture.
(The following are a few of my own ideas and excerpts/thoughts from an article titled "Is Art Essential?" by Donald Harris:)
Art is not only everywhere, it also transcends time. "There is no geographical, ethic, or history boundary." Through art we understand the artist, we understand people, we start to understand our many differences.
Art often reflects the complexity that is within the human mind. Emotions are incredibly hard to understand or even describe. "Otherwise, it would be relatively simple to define love or passion, or hate, or anger, or contemplation, or happiness, or grief, or sorrow."
Emotions - a nonverbal form of communication. It can exist in works of art such as paintings, sculptures, music, or dance. Art also describes feelings in verbal communications such as theatre, poetry, or books. Our emotional life is the most uncontrolled or unpredictable, but clearly a part of our lives that informs our thoughts and actions as much as our intellect. "Art expresses the depth and variety or passions that are a fundamental part of our existence."
With the ability to express our inner desires or worries, in a visual form, we are capable of problem-solving. There are very few situations, experiences, or problems that only have a single solution (those exceptions being something like a mathematical equation).
Many non-artists, those that don't even doodle a little, probably can't grasp how much thought really goes into the creation of an art piece. Art is all about ideas... the rational activity of neurons lighting up in the brain to, in a sense, problem solve.
In works of art there are several outcomes available to the artist, each quite different to each other but still solid answers. Two painters can look at the exact same tree but interpret the surroundings, colors, and textures in completely different ways...
"Can we then conclude that art is essential? From a sociological or political standpoint, probably not. There are problems that are more urgent and compelling. We cannot expect from art that which it cannot promise or deliver, such as shelter for the homeless or jobs for the unemployed. On the other hand, is there something essential about the art that makes it compelling, worthy or our attention, fundamental to an understanding of ourselves and our fellow human being wherever they may be found on this earth, indispensable to our growth as educated and compassionate citizens, or a necessary component to the appreciation and enjoyment of historical achievements?"
Art can be seen as quintessential to an understanding of life in all of its diversity, richness, and depth.
Art teaches us that, in art and in life, there is more than one way to describe the same issue, equally revealing, equally compelling. It's another form of tolerance and understanding. Art is about making choices.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
"Long hair is an unpardonable offense which should be punishable by death." ~ Steven Morrissey
Whether you're a shoulder-length conservative or you like to clip it back, hairstyles are something that change with the times. One year, it might be the "in thing" to wear braids or cornrows... the next, may be pony tails high on your head or some wildly teased hair from something out of a horror show. No matter what the style, one thing remains unchanged. People continue to wear styles pertinent to their time, their idea of what's "in," their likes and dislikes. We are a very eclectic, fussy bunch of hair types.
Usually, hairstyles are reflections of our personality. For example, in the 50s a "duck butt" hairstyle was popular, and "greasers" slicked back their hair for a rebel-like look. In the 90s, mohawks were the perfect additions to tattoos and piercings. In the 80s, a mullet seemed like a good idea... but today, they are only for hicks. Also in the 80s, girls wanted feathered hair (a la Farrah Fawcett from Charlie's Angels), and the big hairstyle was seen as overtly sexy for young girls. Today, there are emo kids who deliberately try to get their hair styled so that it looks like they randomly cut into it using kitchen scissors, and they dye their hair black. Hairstyles can help us achieve how we want to be perceived.
On the other hand, a bad haircut can actually directly affect our personality.
As for me, I know I prefer short hair. People can assume I'm gay, boyish, whatever... but I just say I'm me. It's more comfortable, easier to take care of, and I feel more like myself. For whatever reason I feel like I am trying to be someone I'm not when I have long hair. It's uncomfortable to me... inside and out.
Several friends have even said short hair suits me better. I like to be active and having hair whipping around my face displeases me.
All this post's really saying is... Yay for Short Hair! :o)
Friday, September 10, 2010
Fall: A Time of Reflection
Scars are souvenirs you never lose
The past is never far
Did you lose yourself somewhere out there
Did you get to be a star
And don't it make you sad to know that lifeIs more than who we areWith the weather getting colder, I notice that I start to become more nostalgic. I look back to where I was in life and compare it to where I am now. It's a bittersweet feeling, as I imagine it often is for most.
Two years ago, around this time, I was just transferring to WOU as a Junior in the Art program. I was married. Excited for my new start as an art major at a new school. I had a husband who loved me and a dog that I adored. (Notice the wording of that previous sentence... if you read into it, it probably explains a bit of how I was back then.) I had a great life. A life that I'm sure some friends envied. I was only 23 years old, almost 24, and was married, lived in the hills of West Salem in a beautiful two story house. My husband and I would go on several mini-vacations through out the year and a big vacation during the summers. I had the life. The American dream for some. But alas, I was unhappy through it all. Why? Well, it's not something I feel the need to explain anymore. I'm not sure if I will ever fully understand it all myself.
Fast forward a year. I was 24, almost 25. I had separated from my husband in the Spring and was living with a friend. Over the summer the divorce was finalized. I had started dating a guy who I thought was great. The beginning of Fall term, my second year at WOU, was fast approaching. I was happier with my life. A fresh start I thought. A new beginning. Part way through Fall term the guy and I move in together. A different approach to exclusiveness for me, since marriage was the farthest thing from my mind. A taboo word for me even. We dated for 10 months, until the beginning of summer this year. Without going down a rabbit trail, we can just say he was not a good match for me.
Another new school year is approaching. I am still at WOU, still an art major. This time, however, I am going into this school year as a single woman. No attachments to any significant other. Not to mention I am also now living more on my own than I ever have before. It's a new feeling for me. Scares me, quite frankly. But it's also a good feeling. I am a serial monogamist. I go from one relationship to another with not much time in-between where I am actually single. No time to just be my own person. No chance to be my own person. Because I am a people pleaser when it comes to relationships. If there is a problem, I will change in order to fix it. Over the past few months I have realized this about myself and am in the process of actually standing up for myself and not being walked all over... but those of you who are similar probably can sympathize how difficult it is to change a part of your own personality, even if it is for the better.
Overall, I'm excited for this new school year. I am excited for what this new year will bring. I am terrified of being a responsible adult, but I think I'll be okay. I still have close friends and people who care about me.
But sometimes it's hard to be optimistic about certain life situations when all you truly want is to be accepted and loved by someone who you are also madly in love with. Is it really just a fairy tale? A hopeless romantic thought? Am I damned to repeat a cycle of "new beginnings" every Fall?
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Theological Belligerence
The Christian minister who has ignited a media firestorm with his intention to commemorate the Sep. 11, 2001 terrorist attacks by burning copies of the Quran appeared on "Nightline" Tuesday (Sep. 7) to reassert his church's commitment to the plan.
Terry Jones, pastor of the Dove World Outreach Center, a small, evangelical church in Gainesville, Fla., said that he and his congregation will go forward with the proposed "International Burn a Koran Day" on Sep. 11, 2010, in spite of concerns from the government that the event could put troops in danger.
"It's something that we feel we need to do," Jones said. "It's a message that we feel we need to send."
The pastor stated that he and his congregation have received death threats and will be armed on the evening of the Quran burning. "We are definitely prepared to give our lives for this particular message and cause," he said.
Jones' plans have been met with harsh condemnation from U.S. government officials. General David Petraeus warned that the Taliban could use images of the church's Quran-burning rally to incite violence against U.S. troops in Afghanistan. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton echoed Petraeus' fears, adding that burning the Islamic holy book is a "disrespectful, disgraceful act."
"We understand that those concerns are valid," Jones said. "The question that we have is if we don't do it, when do we stop backing down?"
Terry Jones, pastor of the Dove World Outreach Center, a small, evangelical church in Gainesville, Fla., said that he and his congregation will go forward with the proposed "International Burn a Koran Day" on Sep. 11, 2010, in spite of concerns from the government that the event could put troops in danger.
"It's something that we feel we need to do," Jones said. "It's a message that we feel we need to send."
The pastor stated that he and his congregation have received death threats and will be armed on the evening of the Quran burning. "We are definitely prepared to give our lives for this particular message and cause," he said.
Jones' plans have been met with harsh condemnation from U.S. government officials. General David Petraeus warned that the Taliban could use images of the church's Quran-burning rally to incite violence against U.S. troops in Afghanistan. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton echoed Petraeus' fears, adding that burning the Islamic holy book is a "disrespectful, disgraceful act."
"We understand that those concerns are valid," Jones said. "The question that we have is if we don't do it, when do we stop backing down?"
Friday, August 20, 2010
The Mindset of Incoming College Freshmen - Class of 2014
The mindset of incoming college freshmen changes every year... but here's a look at the graduating Class of 2014. Most born in 1992. I'm only 25. I know I'm young. But some things make me feel old. And this is one.
I personally ran into a "new Freshman" scenario earlier this summer. Upon getting into my car, she thought something was wrong... because I had to manually unlock the door. It's a basic car. No power windows/locks. Even after I explained, she still looked at me funny. And I'm not even that old! What the heck!
Click the link for the Mindset List for the Class of 2014:
http://www.beloit.edu/mindset/2014.php
I personally ran into a "new Freshman" scenario earlier this summer. Upon getting into my car, she thought something was wrong... because I had to manually unlock the door. It's a basic car. No power windows/locks. Even after I explained, she still looked at me funny. And I'm not even that old! What the heck!
Click the link for the Mindset List for the Class of 2014:
http://www.beloit.edu/mindset/2014.php
Thursday, August 12, 2010
In the Mind of Mary - Please Wipe Your Feet
(Disclaimer: Some of this may sound conceited. I am just writing.)
* Compromise can't be all one-sided. If a man wants to be the proud possessor of the deep devotion and thrilling mystery that is me, he'll have to give a few inches too.
* I greatly admire honesty, but careless, thoughtless remarks can wound my unexpectedly vulnerable heart more than anyone can ever guess, because I keep the deepest hurt to myself, inside, where it won't show.
* If a man values my love, he'll never be careless of my feelings. For all my gentleness, my apparent poise and calm, sometimes when I am the most silent, the woman inside is screaming.
* As determinedly ruthless as I can be when I've really been hurt and feel compelled to teach the guilty a lesson they'll never forget, I can also be unbelievably loyal and fiercely protective of anyone who has ever been kind to me. I am a warm and loving friend, capable of intense devotion, who will still be there when the fair-weather friends have all flown the coop.
* I like to know things. A compulsion to probe the buried, the hidden and the mysterious, to ferret out secrets. "Curiousity" is too mild a word. Knowledge is power.
* I have a deep need to understand the world around me. I have high ideals and I have my eye on what's on the horizon. I look ahead, and at times can seem quite restless. I am proud of my knowledge and of my morals.
* I am a tolerant, adventurous, and curious person, and I want to see the best in people and in life.
* I can't deny that sometimes I still have yet to fully learn the lessons of freedom, optimism, daring and self-honesty.
Monday, August 9, 2010
Past and Future
I love looking through old photos. Sometimes you can ask family about those in picture, but sometimes it's also fun to stare into the frozen faces and wonder who they were, what were they thinking at that time, and (depending on how old the picture is) what they are up to now.
Old family pictures are what I love most. I have more somewhere, but for now here is what I have.
Arturo Quintanilla, Sr. - My Great Grandfather
Arturo Quintanilla, Jr. - My Grandfather (My Mother's Father)
I call this his "Ricky Ricardo" picture.
My Grandfather (second in from the right)
with his siblings, two are missing in this picture.
My Great Uncle Walter (17 yrs old) and My Grandmother Mary (12 yrs old) (My Mother's Uncle and Mother)
Grandma Mary is who I was named after. My first and middle name are hers.
Great Uncle Walt
Great Uncle Walter Lyon Chiene
Old family pictures are what I love most. I have more somewhere, but for now here is what I have.
Arturo Quintanilla, Sr. - My Great Grandfather
Arturo Quintanilla, Jr. - My Grandfather (My Mother's Father)I call this his "Ricky Ricardo" picture.
My Grandfather (second in from the right)with his siblings, two are missing in this picture.
My Great Uncle Walter (17 yrs old) and My Grandmother Mary (12 yrs old) (My Mother's Uncle and Mother)Grandma Mary is who I was named after. My first and middle name are hers.
Great Uncle Walt
Great Uncle Walter Lyon ChieneWednesday, May 26, 2010
Das kleine Mädchen
Ein kleines Mädchen is weinend.
sie schreit: "ich bin allein"
Schwach und müde, sie stolpert weiter.
Ein klägliches Dasein.
sie schreit: "ich bin allein"
Schwach und müde, sie stolpert weiter.
Ein klägliches Dasein.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Spring & Summer Events in the Willamette Valley
Eugene Saturday Market in Eugene, OR
The oldest weekly open air crafts festival in the U.S. features handcrafted goods, food and music, rain or shine at 8th and Oak. 10am - 5pm
* Date: April 3, 2010 to November 13, 2010
McMenamins UFO Festival in McMinnville, OR
Come out for this festival that attracts over 5,000 visitors every year – enjoy an alien costume parade, live music by Sallie Ford & The Sound Outside, an alien costume ball and much more...
* Date: May 14, 2010 to May 15, 2010
Eugene Scottish Festival in Eugene, OR
Enjoy bagpipes, harps & championship fiddling. County dancers, clans, Scottish food & wares. Museum and gifts: 3060 River Rd 10am - 5pm.
* Date: May 15, 2010
Strawberry Festival in Lebanon, OR
Jr and Grand parades, open air country fair, world's largest strawberry shortcake.
* Date: June 3, 2010 to June 6, 2010
Wilsonville Festival of Arts in Wilsonville, OR
Celebrates visual, literary & performing arts. Colorful parade kick-off Saturday morning - free - with something for the whole family.
* Date: June 5, 2010 to June 6, 2010
2nd Annual West Bank Solstice Festival in Independence, OR
Local Oregonian artists and their works. Wine, music, food, summer begins, held in a beautiful park. What more could you ask for?
* Date: June 19, 2010
Salem World Beat Festival in Salem, OR
Travel the world at Riverfront Park in Salem. Dine, shop & watch breathtaking cultural performances in each of five World Villages. Join International folk dances, games & workshops at Oregon's premier international event. More than 125 performances, demonstrations and workshops in nine performance venues throughout the weekend, including costumed processions and Dragon Boat Races!
* Date: June 26, 2010 to June 27, 2010
4th of July Independence Days in Independence & Monmouth, OR (Inde-mouth)
Celebrate the 4th in Independence & Monmouth. Fireworks on 2 nights. Big parade July 4th. Vendors, family fun. $1 contribution suggested for fireworks.
* Date: July 2, 2010 to July 4, 2010
61st Annual Salem Art Fair & Festival in Salem, OR
200 artists from across the US and Canada. Live music and performances on two stages. Hands-on activities for kids, and much more!
* Date: July 16, 2010 to July 18, 2010
da Vinci Days Festival in Corvallis, OR
A three-day sensory experience inspired by Leonardo da Vinci, celebrating art, science, and technology. Where else can you find...art that makes you think, mini race cars built by school kids, a juggling physics lesson, a race of human powered all terrain vehicles, Grammy Award winning music, street performers, a community art project and sidewalk chalk art, food, beer, and wine, and the latest research in wave energy and other scientific breakthroughs… all in one place?
* Date: July 16, 2010 to July 18, 2010
Dallas Summerfest in Dallas, OR
A 4-day event that has something for everyone! The highlight is our parade on Saturday at 11AM. Food, Retail, Commercial & Art Booths Galore. Live Entertainment, Hydro Cart Races, Book Sale, Car Show, Art Show, Garden Tour.
* Date: July 29, 2010 to August 1, 2010
Polk County Fair in Rickreall, OR
Good old fashion County Fair, lots of family fun and entertainment. Beautiful Baby contest, tractor pulls, Youth Rodeo 4-H/FFA exhibits. Hours: Thurs. - Sat. 10:00am - 10:00pm, Sun. 10:00am - 6:00pm.
* Date: August 12, 2010 to August 15, 2010
Oregon State Fair in Salem, OR
Free entertainment, concerts and shows, carnival and rides, food and drinks, familyville, animal exhibits, Art exhibit, Artisans' Village, sports and recreation, science and technology, Oregon wine celebration, horse show events, rodeo finals and lots more.
* Date: August 27, 2010 to August 29, 2010
The oldest weekly open air crafts festival in the U.S. features handcrafted goods, food and music, rain or shine at 8th and Oak. 10am - 5pm
* Date: April 3, 2010 to November 13, 2010
McMenamins UFO Festival in McMinnville, OR
Come out for this festival that attracts over 5,000 visitors every year – enjoy an alien costume parade, live music by Sallie Ford & The Sound Outside, an alien costume ball and much more...
* Date: May 14, 2010 to May 15, 2010
Eugene Scottish Festival in Eugene, OR
Enjoy bagpipes, harps & championship fiddling. County dancers, clans, Scottish food & wares. Museum and gifts: 3060 River Rd 10am - 5pm.
* Date: May 15, 2010
Strawberry Festival in Lebanon, OR
Jr and Grand parades, open air country fair, world's largest strawberry shortcake.
* Date: June 3, 2010 to June 6, 2010
Wilsonville Festival of Arts in Wilsonville, OR
Celebrates visual, literary & performing arts. Colorful parade kick-off Saturday morning - free - with something for the whole family.
* Date: June 5, 2010 to June 6, 2010
2nd Annual West Bank Solstice Festival in Independence, OR
Local Oregonian artists and their works. Wine, music, food, summer begins, held in a beautiful park. What more could you ask for?
* Date: June 19, 2010
Salem World Beat Festival in Salem, OR
Travel the world at Riverfront Park in Salem. Dine, shop & watch breathtaking cultural performances in each of five World Villages. Join International folk dances, games & workshops at Oregon's premier international event. More than 125 performances, demonstrations and workshops in nine performance venues throughout the weekend, including costumed processions and Dragon Boat Races!
* Date: June 26, 2010 to June 27, 2010
4th of July Independence Days in Independence & Monmouth, OR (Inde-mouth)
Celebrate the 4th in Independence & Monmouth. Fireworks on 2 nights. Big parade July 4th. Vendors, family fun. $1 contribution suggested for fireworks.
* Date: July 2, 2010 to July 4, 2010
61st Annual Salem Art Fair & Festival in Salem, OR
200 artists from across the US and Canada. Live music and performances on two stages. Hands-on activities for kids, and much more!
* Date: July 16, 2010 to July 18, 2010
da Vinci Days Festival in Corvallis, OR
A three-day sensory experience inspired by Leonardo da Vinci, celebrating art, science, and technology. Where else can you find...art that makes you think, mini race cars built by school kids, a juggling physics lesson, a race of human powered all terrain vehicles, Grammy Award winning music, street performers, a community art project and sidewalk chalk art, food, beer, and wine, and the latest research in wave energy and other scientific breakthroughs… all in one place?
* Date: July 16, 2010 to July 18, 2010
Dallas Summerfest in Dallas, OR
A 4-day event that has something for everyone! The highlight is our parade on Saturday at 11AM. Food, Retail, Commercial & Art Booths Galore. Live Entertainment, Hydro Cart Races, Book Sale, Car Show, Art Show, Garden Tour.
* Date: July 29, 2010 to August 1, 2010
Polk County Fair in Rickreall, OR
Good old fashion County Fair, lots of family fun and entertainment. Beautiful Baby contest, tractor pulls, Youth Rodeo 4-H/FFA exhibits. Hours: Thurs. - Sat. 10:00am - 10:00pm, Sun. 10:00am - 6:00pm.
* Date: August 12, 2010 to August 15, 2010
Oregon State Fair in Salem, OR
Free entertainment, concerts and shows, carnival and rides, food and drinks, familyville, animal exhibits, Art exhibit, Artisans' Village, sports and recreation, science and technology, Oregon wine celebration, horse show events, rodeo finals and lots more.
* Date: August 27, 2010 to August 29, 2010
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Artistic Quotes
"If I could say it in words there would be no reason to paint."
~ Edward Hopper
"Have no fear of perfection, you'll never reach it."
~ Salvador Dali
"Art is not what you see, but what you make others see."
~ Edgar Degas
"Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish."
~ Michelangelo
"Colour is my day-long obsession, joy and torment."
~ Claude Monet
"I don't say everything, but I paint everything."
~ Pablo Picasso
"I begin with an idea and then it becomes something else."
~ Pablo Picasso
"Painting is just another way of keeping a diary."
~ Pablo Picasso
"Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up."
~ Pablo Picasso
~ Edward Hopper
"Have no fear of perfection, you'll never reach it."
~ Salvador Dali
"Art is not what you see, but what you make others see."
~ Edgar Degas
"Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish."
~ Michelangelo
"Colour is my day-long obsession, joy and torment."
~ Claude Monet
"I don't say everything, but I paint everything."
~ Pablo Picasso
"I begin with an idea and then it becomes something else."
~ Pablo Picasso
"Painting is just another way of keeping a diary."
~ Pablo Picasso
"Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up."
~ Pablo Picasso
Death Plays Its Sweet Lullaby by Mary Schuck
Click to Enlarge the Image"Death Plays Its Sweet Lullaby"
Drypoint Engraving - SP#2
A tribute to my friend, Mark Youngsma
Monday, April 5, 2010
Death Brings Reflection
Because of the recent suicide of a friend, I believe I randomly start crying... not just because I miss him... but also because I now feel the bitter pain, anger and saddness that I could have caused my family and friends almost a year ago.
Mark Kenneth Youngsma
03/27/1985 - 03/31/2010
Mark Kenneth Youngsma
03/27/1985 - 03/31/2010
Monday, March 22, 2010
Spring Break... Chillin' at Home
So I realize that I haven't really been blogging up to par. I find funny or interesting topics/articles elsewhere and just repost those to share with you all. I swear I use to be better than this. LoL
I just don't have a whole lot to talk about it seems. At least not blog worthy and with pictures. :o)
I'm in my Senior year of college, yet I have another year before I'll *cross my fingers* graduate. It's Spring Break now and last Friday I went up to my mom's and visited her and my sister.
My youngest nephew's birthday was St. Patricks Day so there was a birthday party for him on Saturday. My sister always makes cakes for her lil ones and Kaden wanted Lightning McQueen. I helped where I could. Actually... Brandon (her husband) and I and my sister all helped with the cake. It was funny having three adults decorate a cake together.
The bleachers are made out of toothpicks, made with a hot glue gun.
Rachael, my sister, realized that she probably should have made the track a little larger, but it worked. Kaden loved it. :o)
When the kids first arrived they all just ran around and played but then we had put some massive paper down on the table. This was a good time waster for the kids to color on, but it also served as a table cover. :o)
Kaden's the one with the green shamrock hat on and is all smiles. :o)
When it was time for cake, Kaden's wish was adorable. I think it's partly the little kid way he talks, but he said, "I wish... for a PUPPY!"
To the right of him is my oldest niece, Kaden's big sister, Kate.
Not pictured are my sister's other two kids. Karston, the oldest, was at a friend's house during the party and Kourtney, the youngest, was napping. Yes... my sister has four children all names starting with K. :o)
All in all it was a nice mini trip to visit them. Stayed the night at my mom's and hung out at my sister's.
As for the rest of Spring Break... I have no idea what will be happening. Probably just relaxing at home.
I just don't have a whole lot to talk about it seems. At least not blog worthy and with pictures. :o)
I'm in my Senior year of college, yet I have another year before I'll *cross my fingers* graduate. It's Spring Break now and last Friday I went up to my mom's and visited her and my sister.
My youngest nephew's birthday was St. Patricks Day so there was a birthday party for him on Saturday. My sister always makes cakes for her lil ones and Kaden wanted Lightning McQueen. I helped where I could. Actually... Brandon (her husband) and I and my sister all helped with the cake. It was funny having three adults decorate a cake together.
The bleachers are made out of toothpicks, made with a hot glue gun.Rachael, my sister, realized that she probably should have made the track a little larger, but it worked. Kaden loved it. :o)
When the kids first arrived they all just ran around and played but then we had put some massive paper down on the table. This was a good time waster for the kids to color on, but it also served as a table cover. :o)
Kaden's the one with the green shamrock hat on and is all smiles. :o)When it was time for cake, Kaden's wish was adorable. I think it's partly the little kid way he talks, but he said, "I wish... for a PUPPY!"
To the right of him is my oldest niece, Kaden's big sister, Kate.Not pictured are my sister's other two kids. Karston, the oldest, was at a friend's house during the party and Kourtney, the youngest, was napping. Yes... my sister has four children all names starting with K. :o)
All in all it was a nice mini trip to visit them. Stayed the night at my mom's and hung out at my sister's.
As for the rest of Spring Break... I have no idea what will be happening. Probably just relaxing at home.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Imagination Acclimation by Mary Schuck
(Click Image to Enlarge)"Imagination Acclimation"
Lithograph
Artist Statement:
Acclimation - to accustom or become accustomed to a new climate or environment; to adapt.
As we grow older we become more grounded to the reality that is around us.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Famous Movie Quotes Explained By Graphs
Sometimes famous movies quotes are repeated so often that they lose their significance. That we forget the meaning and weight behind them. What does "We're not in Kansas anymore" even mean? It's so abstract. Luckily, it, along with seven other famous lines, are explained in these handy graphs.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Saturday, February 27, 2010
"Stop using Jesus as an excuse for being a narrow-minded, bigoted asshole."
Mary's Status on Facebook:
"Stop using Jesus as an excuse for being a narrow-minded, bigoted asshole."
--The Debate That It Caused--
Brandon (bro-in-law):
Am I really like that? Is your Sister or mom?
Mary (me):
I never attached names to the statement.
Brandon:
No, You put us all in the same group. If you are mad at someone talk to them.
Mary Schuck:
Actually, I'm not. I was curious what comments I would get with this quote. And figured you would definitely be one posting some comment. Guess I was right.
Brandon:
It's just a tad offensive. I know you didn't mean to offend everyone, but a little tactfulness can go a long way.
Mary:
I actually wasn't worried about offending people. In fact, I KNEW it would offend people... hence the curiosity of what kind of comments would be made.
Brandon:
Why are you looking to offend? What is it about Christians that offends you?
Mary:
Although Christianity does have its good points, the exclusive nature of many (not all) Christian groups opens the door to Christian bigotry.
To the Christian bigots themselves, their bigotry is usually invisible. It disguises itself as piety and righteousness. But to non-Christians at the receiving end, it is often plain old unadulterated bigotry.
However, I am not saying I don't believe in God. I even still consider myself a Christian. Though some what "no holds barred", definitely hypocritical and blunt.
Brandon:
Narrow-minded? yes I am, but so are most people. We all have our opinions. Bigoted? No, I am not intolerant of other's beliefs. I still believe in freedom of speech. People can believe what they want, but I have the right not to agree.
Mary:
And you also have the right to refuse the rights of others, because you believe they do not deserve said rights. Obvious controversial topic: homosexuality and the gay-marriage issue.
Brandon:
Wow, I feel we've come to the heart of the statement.
Mary:
Not really, it's just the most prevalent.
It's obvious that there are other forms of bigotry and that they often appeal to religion in justifying themselves.
Anti-semitism is fueled by the belief that Jews killed Jesus. Men may claim superiority over women, because it was Eve who seduced Adam into disobeying God. Homophobes may justify their hatred of homosexuals by finding condemnations of homosexuality in the Bible.
So bigotry and religious justification for bigotry often go hand in hand. However, Christian bigotry is bound to be the most common variety of bigotry. It has a stronger foothold in Christianity than any other kind of bigotry does. In the pulpit, Christian preachers will be more likely to condemn all other kinds of bigotry. There is biblical support for the claim that Jews and Gentiles, blacks and whites, and men and women are all equal in God's eyes. But most preachers are unlikely to tell their congregations that non-Christians can be just as good as Christians, that non-Christians and Christians are equal in God's eyes. Such "heresy" would probably get a minister booted out of his church.
Brandon:
People have a right to be homosexual. Do I think it is good for them? No. I think it is a unhealthy lifestyle. Most people who are in the said lifestyle, rarely stay with their partner for very long(less than a year). So the changing of partners becomes a huge issue. Especially with STDs and AIDS. I think that Christains who truly care for others, will have this as part of the reasoning for not supporting this lifestyle. (It is why I am worried about my brother.) I want him around along time. I also hate the idea that marriage might become something cheap. I took my marriage vows very seriously. Let those who want to indulge in gay-marriage call it by another name. I think marriage has already been defined.
It has nothing to do about being good. It has to do with being forgiven and acting in a way that thanks God for that forgiveness.
But you are right, I am not speaking for all So called Christians.
Mary:
It's not just homosexuals that don't stay with partners. That's a stereotype. There are plenty of heterosexuals that are quite promiscuous themselves. To say it's just a "gay thing" is a cop out.
Meghan:
High-five Mary. This isn't about Christianity being 'bad', it's about people using it as a shield and excuse to be a narrow-minded dick to others who don't share their views. It's not exclusive to Christians, but in most people's life experiences that's the 'group' it comes from.
Mary:
Of course! There's also Muslim bigotry and other forms of religious bigotry. I only focus on Christian bigotry, because it is the most rampant form of religious bigotry in the United States. Any other kind of bigotry I deplore just as much as Christian bigotry.
But, as you said Meghan, it is Christian bigotry that people in America see the most. Christians have much more "power" in this country than other religions have.
Ben:
"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ." -Gandhi.
Mary:
Oh, and to clarify, for Brandon's sake...
I want to say that non-Christians shouldn't practice any bigotry toward Christians. There are many fine Christians who are not religious bigots, and it is important to remember that non-Christians can be just as fallible as Christians. Many Christians are good people, and no one is a bad person just for being a Christian. Being a member of any religion doesn't automatically make you morally superior to anyone else.
Jen:
Definitely agreeing with Mary on these topics. No matter what the sexual preference, people are in and out of relationships. AIDS and STD's are not at all limited to homosexuals. To suggest that is ignorant. And to imply that homosexuals are more sexually irresponsible than heterosexuals is extremely ignorant as well. Gay or straight, male or female, Christian or Atheist or Agnostic or [insert religion/spiritual belief here], people are people and should have equal rights and equal value, and should be equally respected. These are the irrelevant categories that have been dividing people and breeding hatred for far too long. I think religion is a major setback for humanity. I do. We have children who are being brainwashed to hate others with differing ideas, to think that all of the other ideas out there are absolutely wrong/evil and that those other people are going to something called hell. This is elitism. And it is absolutely ridiculous. It seems so innocent. The Christian teaches their child to befriend other Christians and to be wary of other who are any variety of non-Christian. They are taught that that non-Christian needs to be saved from their "evil" lifestyle. So these Christian children grow up believing that there is something wrong with everyone who has differing beliefs. There is no hope for humanity if we allow this to go on. We will never grow as people if we continue to think this way and continue to blindly follow and never question the things that we are taught. As for the Bible, I don't think that it can be trusted. Infallible? I don't think so. There are too many inconsistencies. It has been mistranslated and over-revised. And aside from that, it could very well be an old book of propaganda more than anything else.
Religion is the source of so many lies, it's ridiculous.
LIE: Homosexuality is a sin.
LIE: Women are inferior to men.
LIE: One religion is right and all the rest are wrong.
LIE: Atheists have no morals.
LIE: Morals come from religion.
Mary:
Jen, you're amazing. And I'm glad you decided to comment and give you're opinion on the topic since we grew up in the same town, church, etc.
Jen:
I think you're amazing, too, Mary! I think we're on similar pages. Tired of the setbacks, the things that make people think there is only one correct view, and the intolerance of all other views, and the hatred that stems from that, and the attempt at forcing said view onto those with said other views. Fortunately, there are a lot of people out there with a variety of different viewpoints that are waking up to the lies that we've been told.
Laraine:
when i saw that dude admitted to being narrow-minded i knew i didn't need to read ahead. too funny. and actually i'd say religion is redonkulous. as soon as you stop questioning things you've started your role as a moron.
Jen:
Yep. We should never stop questioning. Even if it leads us to a point that makes us reconsider the things that we thought were true once. I would rather discover a lie that shatters a supposed truth than go on believing a lie.
Mary:
Exactly Jen. I am constantly questioning my own beliefs / ideologies.
Beth:
ehem...I really shouldn't say anything.
Ah, hell...
Remember how religion got its beginnings...All religions...to answer our origin questions, because it's too scary to think that it all just happened chaotically-through chance. With that understanding, we can see how one group of people can think that their ideas are more 'logical' than that of another group. And with that, we can see how fights can break out between two differing groups. Hmmm, then we have battles, then wars, along with propoganda, and integration of differing religions with each other. With that understanding, especially looking at the basic beginnings of religion, we can say that those who fight the hardest for their beliefs are the ones who are most afraid of being proven wrong....those who are afraid of the holes in what they've been taught. And then there are those people who are third or fourth or fifth or hundredth generation who are only following what they've been brainwashed to believe is the truth. So compassion is what we need to show people who don't understand. It's hard, but it's the best way to work...fight fire with fire, right?
Yikes.
Okay, and Brandon, REALLY? Homosexual relationships last less than a year? Who ARE you? Where have you been, bro? Your brother is going to do fine as long as he was taught how to have a loving caring, and respectful relationship with whomever he chooses to spend the rest of his life with.
I think Mary's status is spot on. If someone wants to be a bigoted asshole, pick someone who is a bigoted asshole as your role model, not the C-Man.
Mary:
Hetero-marriage... Homo-marriage...
Marriage in general started because of the Crusades. Men would leave for war and never come back, finding new wives. Marriage was the only way to ensure that they would feel obligated to come back. The churches had too many unwed mothers to deal with.
Interesting how all these things actually started... when you actually look. Even religion for that matter.
David (brother):
Jen, I want to respond to something you said. " I think religion is a major setback for humanity. I do."
Religion is something that has given humanity its greatest cultures, thinkers, civilizations, and ideas. Religion has done many things that we now regret, but let us not think of religion simply has being that has set us back. On the contrary, religion has made us who we are. Western civilization, Eastern civilization, etc., would not be what they are today without religions.
I was in India in 2009 and I walked the streets of Hyderabad and the surrounding small towns and villages around it. All around me were Hindu temples along with memories of past religious rule. In the three trips I have made to India, I can never escape the presence of religion. Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Animism, Sikhism, etc., were all around me. We can look at the oppression that Hinduism causes in the caste, or the terrorism done in the name of Islam, but this is not telling the whole truth about the experience of these religions. That is why I will defend all religions, even those that I disagree with, against the claim that they have held humanity back. Yes, there are doctrines that need to be done away with, but let us give the whole story about religion before we condemn it.
Mary, I also take issue with the idea that marriage started with the crusades. There are Old Testament laws for marriage which were written a thousand years before the crusades.
Mary:
I am glad you commented though, bro. You are the historian of the family. :) And I appreciate that.
Brandon:
Just to set the record straight. I know it sounded like I came across as not knowing what I was talking about, but proof is a better arguement.
MONOGAMY VS. PROMISCUITY: SEXUAL PARTNERS OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Lest anyone suffer the illusion that any equivalency between the sexual practices of homosexual relationships and traditional marriage exists, the statistics regarding sexual fidelity within marriage are revealing:
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Married couples
· A nationally representative survey of 884 men and 1,288 women published in the Journal of Sex Research found that 77 percent of married men and 88 percent of married women had remained faithful to their marriage vows.[9]
· A 1997 national survey appearing in The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States found that 75 percent of husbands and 85 percent of wives never had sexual relations outside of marriage.[10]
· A telephone survey conducted for Parade magazine of 1,049 adults selected to represent the demographic characteristics of the United States found that 81 percent of married men and 85 percent of married women reported that they had never violated their marriage vows.[11]
Male Homosexuals
Research indicates that the average male homosexual has hundreds of sex partners in his lifetime:
· The Dutch study of partnered homosexuals, which was published in the journal AIDS, found that men with a steady partner had an average of eight sexual partners per year.[12]
· Bell and Weinberg, in their classic study of male and female homosexuality, found that 43 percent of white male homosexuals had sex with 500 or more partners, with 28 percent having one thousand or more sex partners.[13]
· In their study of the sexual profiles of 2,583 older homosexuals published in the Journal of Sex Research, Paul Van de Ven et al. found that "the modal range for number of sexual partners ever [of homosexuals] was 101-500." In addition, 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent had between 501 and 1,000 partners. A further 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent reported having had more than one thousand lifetime sexual partners.[14]
· A survey conducted by the homosexual magazine Genre found that 24 percent of the respondents said they had had more than one hundred sexual partners in their lifetime. The magazine noted that several respondents suggested including a category of those who had more than one thousand sexual partners.[15]
"Commitment" in Male Homosexual Couples
Even in those homosexual relationships in which the partners consider themselves to be in a committed relationship, the meaning of "committed" or "monogamous" typically means something radically different than in heterosexual marriage.
· A Canadian study of homosexual men who had been in committed relationships lasting longer than one year found that only 25 percent of those interviewed reported being monogamous." According to study author Barry Adam, "Gay culture allows men to explore different...forms of relationships besides the monogamy coveted by heterosexuals."[16]
· The Handbook of Family Diversity reported a study in which "many self-described 'monogamous' couples reported an average of three to five partners in the past year. Blasband and Peplau (1985) observed a similar pattern."[17]
· In The Male Couple, authors David P. McWhirter and Andrew M. Mattison reported that, in a study of 156 males in homosexual relationships lasting from one to thirty-seven years:
Only seven couples have a totally exclusive sexual relationship, and these men all have been together for less than five years. Stated another way, all couples with a relationship lasting more than five years have incorporated some provision for outside sexual activity in their relationships.[18]
And so, no, I don't think I am a bigot. But I do think I can still hope that those involved in this lifestyle will not end up dying from it. It is dangerous.
You can get AIDS from the lifestyle and it can kill you....Why does it have to be so....us against them? Why can't there be compassion? Why can't people just agree to disagree?(Beth, Jen) Why all the animosity?
Why so critical of my way of life even if you can't comprehend why I believe the way I do? I believe I am not doped by my father's beliefs. Rather, I see why he made the decisions he made. He wasn't a Christian until he was in his 20s. He had good morals, but didn't know squat about God. Now, he is very convincing in his arguements for believing the way he does.
There is alot of bitterness in these words that you have said, I wish that source of that bitterness would heal. I don't wish you anything but kindness and peace. May you have it.
Mary:
AIDS is actually more rampant in heterosexuals than homosexuals now. Being homosexual doesn't necessarily make you more susceptible to getting AIDS than if you were straight. ANY person that is promiscuous has that chance of AIDS or an STD.
I'm not being critical of any way of life. I wasn't actually trying to offend anyone, yes, I KNEW that people would get offended, but that's their own doing.
The quote wasn't directed at any particular person. It's just stating that SOME use God/Jesus as an excuse to be bigots.
Sarah:
Mary and Jen - I am saddened to see the hurt in your words. I am unsure what the church (or those within it) have done to hurt you so. It is obvious that you have chosen to walk a different path than I remember you choosing in your youth. What I find interesting is that you both ran in circles that pressured their beliefs on others and condemned you if you didn't believe the same way. Although I am glad that you are now willing and able to see people as people, I plead with you to see God as God and not as his far from perfect creations show Him to be. I am also one for questioning everything, which is what we are called to do in the Bible. I am sorry if your pastors, teachers and leaders never allowed for that.
Brandon - in situations like this, a pissing contest is not in order. It would be best to remind Mary you love her, although you disagree, and leave it at that. I am positive that she knows where you stand, hence the fact that she knew you would respond.
David - Mary has always spoken highly of you! Your words were amazing and challenge me to study more!!! Thank you.
Where I stand: I, as a follower of Christ, am not offended. However, I take this as a reminder that Christ ministered to the unlovely. Those outcastes and mistreated by those who took God's love and law and made it into a do's and do not's ruling. Although I am a part of the Christian religion, I do not believe that God made me out of a cookie cutter mold. Jesus loves me and my piercings and tattoos. God calls me to believe and to act like it. What does that look like? Why not visit with me and let me show you, rather than use words. My hope is to speak God's love so loudly (with actions) that no one hears the words from my mouth.
Believe me when I say that I love you all and will be praying for you.
Beth:
Mary, you are soooo evil for posting this!! ;) I'm not going to respond to anymore of this tripe. It's pointless.
David:
Sarah, thank you for your kinds words. There was a time when I was willing to challenge everything that Christianity said but now I find that there is much truth within it. I am not orthodox (whatever that means), but I see Christianity as my faith even if question much of it.
Ronni:
"It's just a tad offensive. I know you didn't mean to offend everyone, but a little tactfulness can go a long way."
If you take offense at Mary's comment then it is probably aimed at you. Personally I read it and thought, "so true, it's fellow Christians that give everyone the bad name."
I have many friends who are pagan, does that mean I can't be friends with them, NO! It means I need to set an example of what a Christian should be. It means I should show them the benefits of being a Christian and living in God's love. It means when they find out I'm a Christian I need to open my arms to them even more and accept them for who they are so that they may find Christ.
Most of my pagan friends assume I am pagan because I do not condemn them; I am a sinner too! Who am I to condemn?
And as for the comments on homo-sexuality: I have seen MANY MORE gay/lesbian couples with a true commitment than hetero couples. One in particular that comes to mind are two men in their 60s now who have been together since one was 18 and the other 19. Percentage-wise, homosexual couples stay together longer then heterosexual couples. The problem is that the only way we get this information is through "random" surveys because there is no census of homosexual couples. And calling it a "lifestyle" is disrespectful... you want them to listen to you? You want them to be saved? You need to be respectful if you truly want them to listen to you. By being rude and aloof to these things just makes them aloof back.
God does not put one sin above another (unless you're Catholic)... it is not the actions themselves but SIN is ONE THING: DISOBEYING GOD. Have you disobeyed God? Yes, therefore you are a sinner. Even something as simple as condemning someone else or disliking them for their sins IS A SIN! It is called PRIDE. You are no better nor worse than your fellows; you are either saved or not, but we are all sinners!
Brandon:
Sarah- Thank you for those words. I agree, and getting wrapped up in this arguement wasn't my idea, I just got carried away. I really wanted to know why Mary would post something like that. I was surprized.
Ronni- If you read the bible, you will find what God thinks is sin. I am not saying homosexuality is wrong, I am defending God's point of view with some statistics I found. He says it's wrong, and he even thinks some sins are worse than others(read the old Testament). If the punishment is worse then the sin is too. You are right in saying that everyone has sinned. I have sinned too, but it is the blood of Christ that washes the sin away. But I am no longer a sinner, but a saint, I am a Child of God, and a follower of Christ.
Mary- You are right. AIDS is actually more rampant in heterosexuals than homosexuals now. Being homosexual doesn't necessarily make you more susceptible to getting AIDS than if you were straight. ANY person that is promiscuous has that chance of AIDS or an STD.
This is a very good quote. and I think that this is the very thing that I am afraid of for my brother.
Everyone else. Thank you for this discussion. But I am done with it.
Special thanks to Sarah for putting this into perspective. Good day.
Jen:
Ah statistics.... Statistics, Brandon, are absolutely worthless. They prove nothing. I noticed that you were comparing MARRIED heterosexual couples with unmarried homosexual couples. I have a feeling that the statistics, although worthless, would be a little different if you were to compare mature heterosexual couples and mature homosexual couples. You're trying to compare people who want to be in a committed relationship with people who don't. It's nonsensical. Maybe you should find some worthless statistics on unmarried heterosexuals and their number of sexual encounters.
But as I said, statistics prove nothing. There are too many variables to consider, including the mindset of the folks who participate in ridiculous surveys, and the mindset of the folks who don't, or the time of day the survey is performed, or the stress level of the participants, vs the stress level of the nonparticipants, etc. etc. etc.
"...AIDS... ...it could kill you..." So can drinking pop or sitting for extended periods of time or eating fast food or having heterosexual sex or doing drugs or drinking fluoridated water or eating animal products or tripping down a flight of stairs or being hit by a car or stressing out about things that aren't your business...
Ronni:
"So can drinking pop or sitting for extended periods of time or eating fast food or having heterosexual sex or doing drugs or drinking fluoridated water or eating animal products or tripping down a flight of stairs or being hit by a car or stressing out about things that aren't your business..."
I absolutely love that!
"Stop using Jesus as an excuse for being a narrow-minded, bigoted asshole."
--The Debate That It Caused--
Brandon (bro-in-law):
Am I really like that? Is your Sister or mom?
Mary (me):
I never attached names to the statement.
Brandon:
No, You put us all in the same group. If you are mad at someone talk to them.
Mary Schuck:
Actually, I'm not. I was curious what comments I would get with this quote. And figured you would definitely be one posting some comment. Guess I was right.
Brandon:
It's just a tad offensive. I know you didn't mean to offend everyone, but a little tactfulness can go a long way.
Mary:
I actually wasn't worried about offending people. In fact, I KNEW it would offend people... hence the curiosity of what kind of comments would be made.
Brandon:
Why are you looking to offend? What is it about Christians that offends you?
Mary:
Although Christianity does have its good points, the exclusive nature of many (not all) Christian groups opens the door to Christian bigotry.
To the Christian bigots themselves, their bigotry is usually invisible. It disguises itself as piety and righteousness. But to non-Christians at the receiving end, it is often plain old unadulterated bigotry.
However, I am not saying I don't believe in God. I even still consider myself a Christian. Though some what "no holds barred", definitely hypocritical and blunt.
Brandon:
Narrow-minded? yes I am, but so are most people. We all have our opinions. Bigoted? No, I am not intolerant of other's beliefs. I still believe in freedom of speech. People can believe what they want, but I have the right not to agree.
Mary:
And you also have the right to refuse the rights of others, because you believe they do not deserve said rights. Obvious controversial topic: homosexuality and the gay-marriage issue.
Brandon:
Wow, I feel we've come to the heart of the statement.
Mary:
Not really, it's just the most prevalent.
It's obvious that there are other forms of bigotry and that they often appeal to religion in justifying themselves.
Anti-semitism is fueled by the belief that Jews killed Jesus. Men may claim superiority over women, because it was Eve who seduced Adam into disobeying God. Homophobes may justify their hatred of homosexuals by finding condemnations of homosexuality in the Bible.
So bigotry and religious justification for bigotry often go hand in hand. However, Christian bigotry is bound to be the most common variety of bigotry. It has a stronger foothold in Christianity than any other kind of bigotry does. In the pulpit, Christian preachers will be more likely to condemn all other kinds of bigotry. There is biblical support for the claim that Jews and Gentiles, blacks and whites, and men and women are all equal in God's eyes. But most preachers are unlikely to tell their congregations that non-Christians can be just as good as Christians, that non-Christians and Christians are equal in God's eyes. Such "heresy" would probably get a minister booted out of his church.
Brandon:
People have a right to be homosexual. Do I think it is good for them? No. I think it is a unhealthy lifestyle. Most people who are in the said lifestyle, rarely stay with their partner for very long(less than a year). So the changing of partners becomes a huge issue. Especially with STDs and AIDS. I think that Christains who truly care for others, will have this as part of the reasoning for not supporting this lifestyle. (It is why I am worried about my brother.) I want him around along time. I also hate the idea that marriage might become something cheap. I took my marriage vows very seriously. Let those who want to indulge in gay-marriage call it by another name. I think marriage has already been defined.
It has nothing to do about being good. It has to do with being forgiven and acting in a way that thanks God for that forgiveness.
But you are right, I am not speaking for all So called Christians.
Mary:
It's not just homosexuals that don't stay with partners. That's a stereotype. There are plenty of heterosexuals that are quite promiscuous themselves. To say it's just a "gay thing" is a cop out.
Meghan:
High-five Mary. This isn't about Christianity being 'bad', it's about people using it as a shield and excuse to be a narrow-minded dick to others who don't share their views. It's not exclusive to Christians, but in most people's life experiences that's the 'group' it comes from.
Mary:
Of course! There's also Muslim bigotry and other forms of religious bigotry. I only focus on Christian bigotry, because it is the most rampant form of religious bigotry in the United States. Any other kind of bigotry I deplore just as much as Christian bigotry.
But, as you said Meghan, it is Christian bigotry that people in America see the most. Christians have much more "power" in this country than other religions have.
Ben:
"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ." -Gandhi.
Mary:
Oh, and to clarify, for Brandon's sake...
I want to say that non-Christians shouldn't practice any bigotry toward Christians. There are many fine Christians who are not religious bigots, and it is important to remember that non-Christians can be just as fallible as Christians. Many Christians are good people, and no one is a bad person just for being a Christian. Being a member of any religion doesn't automatically make you morally superior to anyone else.
Jen:
Definitely agreeing with Mary on these topics. No matter what the sexual preference, people are in and out of relationships. AIDS and STD's are not at all limited to homosexuals. To suggest that is ignorant. And to imply that homosexuals are more sexually irresponsible than heterosexuals is extremely ignorant as well. Gay or straight, male or female, Christian or Atheist or Agnostic or [insert religion/spiritual belief here], people are people and should have equal rights and equal value, and should be equally respected. These are the irrelevant categories that have been dividing people and breeding hatred for far too long. I think religion is a major setback for humanity. I do. We have children who are being brainwashed to hate others with differing ideas, to think that all of the other ideas out there are absolutely wrong/evil and that those other people are going to something called hell. This is elitism. And it is absolutely ridiculous. It seems so innocent. The Christian teaches their child to befriend other Christians and to be wary of other who are any variety of non-Christian. They are taught that that non-Christian needs to be saved from their "evil" lifestyle. So these Christian children grow up believing that there is something wrong with everyone who has differing beliefs. There is no hope for humanity if we allow this to go on. We will never grow as people if we continue to think this way and continue to blindly follow and never question the things that we are taught. As for the Bible, I don't think that it can be trusted. Infallible? I don't think so. There are too many inconsistencies. It has been mistranslated and over-revised. And aside from that, it could very well be an old book of propaganda more than anything else.
Religion is the source of so many lies, it's ridiculous.
LIE: Homosexuality is a sin.
LIE: Women are inferior to men.
LIE: One religion is right and all the rest are wrong.
LIE: Atheists have no morals.
LIE: Morals come from religion.
Mary:
Jen, you're amazing. And I'm glad you decided to comment and give you're opinion on the topic since we grew up in the same town, church, etc.
Jen:
I think you're amazing, too, Mary! I think we're on similar pages. Tired of the setbacks, the things that make people think there is only one correct view, and the intolerance of all other views, and the hatred that stems from that, and the attempt at forcing said view onto those with said other views. Fortunately, there are a lot of people out there with a variety of different viewpoints that are waking up to the lies that we've been told.
Laraine:
when i saw that dude admitted to being narrow-minded i knew i didn't need to read ahead. too funny. and actually i'd say religion is redonkulous. as soon as you stop questioning things you've started your role as a moron.
Jen:
Yep. We should never stop questioning. Even if it leads us to a point that makes us reconsider the things that we thought were true once. I would rather discover a lie that shatters a supposed truth than go on believing a lie.
Mary:
Exactly Jen. I am constantly questioning my own beliefs / ideologies.
Beth:
ehem...I really shouldn't say anything.
Ah, hell...
Remember how religion got its beginnings...All religions...to answer our origin questions, because it's too scary to think that it all just happened chaotically-through chance. With that understanding, we can see how one group of people can think that their ideas are more 'logical' than that of another group. And with that, we can see how fights can break out between two differing groups. Hmmm, then we have battles, then wars, along with propoganda, and integration of differing religions with each other. With that understanding, especially looking at the basic beginnings of religion, we can say that those who fight the hardest for their beliefs are the ones who are most afraid of being proven wrong....those who are afraid of the holes in what they've been taught. And then there are those people who are third or fourth or fifth or hundredth generation who are only following what they've been brainwashed to believe is the truth. So compassion is what we need to show people who don't understand. It's hard, but it's the best way to work...fight fire with fire, right?
Yikes.
Okay, and Brandon, REALLY? Homosexual relationships last less than a year? Who ARE you? Where have you been, bro? Your brother is going to do fine as long as he was taught how to have a loving caring, and respectful relationship with whomever he chooses to spend the rest of his life with.
I think Mary's status is spot on. If someone wants to be a bigoted asshole, pick someone who is a bigoted asshole as your role model, not the C-Man.
Mary:
Hetero-marriage... Homo-marriage...
Marriage in general started because of the Crusades. Men would leave for war and never come back, finding new wives. Marriage was the only way to ensure that they would feel obligated to come back. The churches had too many unwed mothers to deal with.
Interesting how all these things actually started... when you actually look. Even religion for that matter.
David (brother):
Jen, I want to respond to something you said. " I think religion is a major setback for humanity. I do."
Religion is something that has given humanity its greatest cultures, thinkers, civilizations, and ideas. Religion has done many things that we now regret, but let us not think of religion simply has being that has set us back. On the contrary, religion has made us who we are. Western civilization, Eastern civilization, etc., would not be what they are today without religions.
I was in India in 2009 and I walked the streets of Hyderabad and the surrounding small towns and villages around it. All around me were Hindu temples along with memories of past religious rule. In the three trips I have made to India, I can never escape the presence of religion. Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Animism, Sikhism, etc., were all around me. We can look at the oppression that Hinduism causes in the caste, or the terrorism done in the name of Islam, but this is not telling the whole truth about the experience of these religions. That is why I will defend all religions, even those that I disagree with, against the claim that they have held humanity back. Yes, there are doctrines that need to be done away with, but let us give the whole story about religion before we condemn it.
Mary, I also take issue with the idea that marriage started with the crusades. There are Old Testament laws for marriage which were written a thousand years before the crusades.
Mary:
I am glad you commented though, bro. You are the historian of the family. :) And I appreciate that.
Brandon:
Just to set the record straight. I know it sounded like I came across as not knowing what I was talking about, but proof is a better arguement.
MONOGAMY VS. PROMISCUITY: SEXUAL PARTNERS OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Lest anyone suffer the illusion that any equivalency between the sexual practices of homosexual relationships and traditional marriage exists, the statistics regarding sexual fidelity within marriage are revealing:
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Married couples
· A nationally representative survey of 884 men and 1,288 women published in the Journal of Sex Research found that 77 percent of married men and 88 percent of married women had remained faithful to their marriage vows.[9]
· A 1997 national survey appearing in The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States found that 75 percent of husbands and 85 percent of wives never had sexual relations outside of marriage.[10]
· A telephone survey conducted for Parade magazine of 1,049 adults selected to represent the demographic characteristics of the United States found that 81 percent of married men and 85 percent of married women reported that they had never violated their marriage vows.[11]
Male Homosexuals
Research indicates that the average male homosexual has hundreds of sex partners in his lifetime:
· The Dutch study of partnered homosexuals, which was published in the journal AIDS, found that men with a steady partner had an average of eight sexual partners per year.[12]
· Bell and Weinberg, in their classic study of male and female homosexuality, found that 43 percent of white male homosexuals had sex with 500 or more partners, with 28 percent having one thousand or more sex partners.[13]
· In their study of the sexual profiles of 2,583 older homosexuals published in the Journal of Sex Research, Paul Van de Ven et al. found that "the modal range for number of sexual partners ever [of homosexuals] was 101-500." In addition, 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent had between 501 and 1,000 partners. A further 10.2 percent to 15.7 percent reported having had more than one thousand lifetime sexual partners.[14]
· A survey conducted by the homosexual magazine Genre found that 24 percent of the respondents said they had had more than one hundred sexual partners in their lifetime. The magazine noted that several respondents suggested including a category of those who had more than one thousand sexual partners.[15]
"Commitment" in Male Homosexual Couples
Even in those homosexual relationships in which the partners consider themselves to be in a committed relationship, the meaning of "committed" or "monogamous" typically means something radically different than in heterosexual marriage.
· A Canadian study of homosexual men who had been in committed relationships lasting longer than one year found that only 25 percent of those interviewed reported being monogamous." According to study author Barry Adam, "Gay culture allows men to explore different...forms of relationships besides the monogamy coveted by heterosexuals."[16]
· The Handbook of Family Diversity reported a study in which "many self-described 'monogamous' couples reported an average of three to five partners in the past year. Blasband and Peplau (1985) observed a similar pattern."[17]
· In The Male Couple, authors David P. McWhirter and Andrew M. Mattison reported that, in a study of 156 males in homosexual relationships lasting from one to thirty-seven years:
Only seven couples have a totally exclusive sexual relationship, and these men all have been together for less than five years. Stated another way, all couples with a relationship lasting more than five years have incorporated some provision for outside sexual activity in their relationships.[18]
And so, no, I don't think I am a bigot. But I do think I can still hope that those involved in this lifestyle will not end up dying from it. It is dangerous.
You can get AIDS from the lifestyle and it can kill you....Why does it have to be so....us against them? Why can't there be compassion? Why can't people just agree to disagree?(Beth, Jen) Why all the animosity?
Why so critical of my way of life even if you can't comprehend why I believe the way I do? I believe I am not doped by my father's beliefs. Rather, I see why he made the decisions he made. He wasn't a Christian until he was in his 20s. He had good morals, but didn't know squat about God. Now, he is very convincing in his arguements for believing the way he does.
There is alot of bitterness in these words that you have said, I wish that source of that bitterness would heal. I don't wish you anything but kindness and peace. May you have it.
Mary:
AIDS is actually more rampant in heterosexuals than homosexuals now. Being homosexual doesn't necessarily make you more susceptible to getting AIDS than if you were straight. ANY person that is promiscuous has that chance of AIDS or an STD.
I'm not being critical of any way of life. I wasn't actually trying to offend anyone, yes, I KNEW that people would get offended, but that's their own doing.
The quote wasn't directed at any particular person. It's just stating that SOME use God/Jesus as an excuse to be bigots.
Sarah:
Mary and Jen - I am saddened to see the hurt in your words. I am unsure what the church (or those within it) have done to hurt you so. It is obvious that you have chosen to walk a different path than I remember you choosing in your youth. What I find interesting is that you both ran in circles that pressured their beliefs on others and condemned you if you didn't believe the same way. Although I am glad that you are now willing and able to see people as people, I plead with you to see God as God and not as his far from perfect creations show Him to be. I am also one for questioning everything, which is what we are called to do in the Bible. I am sorry if your pastors, teachers and leaders never allowed for that.
Brandon - in situations like this, a pissing contest is not in order. It would be best to remind Mary you love her, although you disagree, and leave it at that. I am positive that she knows where you stand, hence the fact that she knew you would respond.
David - Mary has always spoken highly of you! Your words were amazing and challenge me to study more!!! Thank you.
Where I stand: I, as a follower of Christ, am not offended. However, I take this as a reminder that Christ ministered to the unlovely. Those outcastes and mistreated by those who took God's love and law and made it into a do's and do not's ruling. Although I am a part of the Christian religion, I do not believe that God made me out of a cookie cutter mold. Jesus loves me and my piercings and tattoos. God calls me to believe and to act like it. What does that look like? Why not visit with me and let me show you, rather than use words. My hope is to speak God's love so loudly (with actions) that no one hears the words from my mouth.
Believe me when I say that I love you all and will be praying for you.
Beth:
Mary, you are soooo evil for posting this!! ;) I'm not going to respond to anymore of this tripe. It's pointless.
David:
Sarah, thank you for your kinds words. There was a time when I was willing to challenge everything that Christianity said but now I find that there is much truth within it. I am not orthodox (whatever that means), but I see Christianity as my faith even if question much of it.
Ronni:
"It's just a tad offensive. I know you didn't mean to offend everyone, but a little tactfulness can go a long way."
If you take offense at Mary's comment then it is probably aimed at you. Personally I read it and thought, "so true, it's fellow Christians that give everyone the bad name."
I have many friends who are pagan, does that mean I can't be friends with them, NO! It means I need to set an example of what a Christian should be. It means I should show them the benefits of being a Christian and living in God's love. It means when they find out I'm a Christian I need to open my arms to them even more and accept them for who they are so that they may find Christ.
Most of my pagan friends assume I am pagan because I do not condemn them; I am a sinner too! Who am I to condemn?
And as for the comments on homo-sexuality: I have seen MANY MORE gay/lesbian couples with a true commitment than hetero couples. One in particular that comes to mind are two men in their 60s now who have been together since one was 18 and the other 19. Percentage-wise, homosexual couples stay together longer then heterosexual couples. The problem is that the only way we get this information is through "random" surveys because there is no census of homosexual couples. And calling it a "lifestyle" is disrespectful... you want them to listen to you? You want them to be saved? You need to be respectful if you truly want them to listen to you. By being rude and aloof to these things just makes them aloof back.
God does not put one sin above another (unless you're Catholic)... it is not the actions themselves but SIN is ONE THING: DISOBEYING GOD. Have you disobeyed God? Yes, therefore you are a sinner. Even something as simple as condemning someone else or disliking them for their sins IS A SIN! It is called PRIDE. You are no better nor worse than your fellows; you are either saved or not, but we are all sinners!
Brandon:
Sarah- Thank you for those words. I agree, and getting wrapped up in this arguement wasn't my idea, I just got carried away. I really wanted to know why Mary would post something like that. I was surprized.
Ronni- If you read the bible, you will find what God thinks is sin. I am not saying homosexuality is wrong, I am defending God's point of view with some statistics I found. He says it's wrong, and he even thinks some sins are worse than others(read the old Testament). If the punishment is worse then the sin is too. You are right in saying that everyone has sinned. I have sinned too, but it is the blood of Christ that washes the sin away. But I am no longer a sinner, but a saint, I am a Child of God, and a follower of Christ.
Mary- You are right. AIDS is actually more rampant in heterosexuals than homosexuals now. Being homosexual doesn't necessarily make you more susceptible to getting AIDS than if you were straight. ANY person that is promiscuous has that chance of AIDS or an STD.
This is a very good quote. and I think that this is the very thing that I am afraid of for my brother.
Everyone else. Thank you for this discussion. But I am done with it.
Special thanks to Sarah for putting this into perspective. Good day.
Jen:
Ah statistics.... Statistics, Brandon, are absolutely worthless. They prove nothing. I noticed that you were comparing MARRIED heterosexual couples with unmarried homosexual couples. I have a feeling that the statistics, although worthless, would be a little different if you were to compare mature heterosexual couples and mature homosexual couples. You're trying to compare people who want to be in a committed relationship with people who don't. It's nonsensical. Maybe you should find some worthless statistics on unmarried heterosexuals and their number of sexual encounters.
But as I said, statistics prove nothing. There are too many variables to consider, including the mindset of the folks who participate in ridiculous surveys, and the mindset of the folks who don't, or the time of day the survey is performed, or the stress level of the participants, vs the stress level of the nonparticipants, etc. etc. etc.
"...AIDS... ...it could kill you..." So can drinking pop or sitting for extended periods of time or eating fast food or having heterosexual sex or doing drugs or drinking fluoridated water or eating animal products or tripping down a flight of stairs or being hit by a car or stressing out about things that aren't your business...
Ronni:
"So can drinking pop or sitting for extended periods of time or eating fast food or having heterosexual sex or doing drugs or drinking fluoridated water or eating animal products or tripping down a flight of stairs or being hit by a car or stressing out about things that aren't your business..."
I absolutely love that!
Friday, February 26, 2010
Latin for the Day
Carpe Diem - Seize the day
Carpe Noctum - Seize the night
Carpin Denium - There's a fish in my pants
Carpe Ovum - Seize the egg
Cave Canem - Beware of the dog
Carpe Noctum - Seize the night
Carpin Denium - There's a fish in my pants
Carpe Ovum - Seize the egg
Cave Canem - Beware of the dog
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Saturday, January 23, 2010
But Can We Cuddle Afterward?: Holiday Inn Offers Human Bed-Warming Service
Holiday Inn is now offering a complementary human bed warming service at its London Kensington location (pissing will still cost extra). If requested, a willing member of hotel staff will jump in your bed, dressed head to foot in an all-in-one sleeper suit, until your nightly chamber warms up.Holiday Inn spokeswoman Jane Bednall described the plan as something like having a "giant hot water bottle in your bed."
Really, Jane? Was the metaphor really necessary? I'd like to think everyone here can imagine what a stranger in a bunny suit lying in their bed is like. Like awesome. I call little spoon!
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Recycled Art
Chris Jordan’s Running the Numbers series aims to display America’s relationship with consumerism. Shown is a recreation of Seurat’s masterpiece, A Sunday Afternoon on the Island of Grand Jatte, done with 106,000 aluminum cans. A closeup of the work is immediately beneath it.
Yong Ho Ji makes sculptures out of old tires. He sees tires as a symbol of out-of-control consumerism.
Tim Nobel & Sue Webster met while they were studying Fine Arts in University together. Now they are best known for their art made from trash collected from the London streets, which shows an image when light is projected in front of it.
Yong Ho Ji makes sculptures out of old tires. He sees tires as a symbol of out-of-control consumerism.
Tim Nobel & Sue Webster met while they were studying Fine Arts in University together. Now they are best known for their art made from trash collected from the London streets, which shows an image when light is projected in front of it.
Friday, January 22, 2010
The Changing of Gender Roles Continues Around the World
In Germany, a Tradition Falls, and Women Rise
Her crime? Signing up her 9-year-old son when the local primary school first offered lunch and afternoon classes last autumn — and returning to work.
“I was told: ‘Why do you have children if you can’t take care of them?”’ said Ms. Maier, 47. By comparison, having a first son out of wedlock 21 years ago raised few eyebrows in this traditional Bavarian town, she said.
Ten years into the 21st century, most schools in Germany still end at lunchtime, a tradition that dates back nearly 250 years. That has powerfully sustained the housewife/mother image of German lore and was long credited with producing well-bred, well-read burghers.
Modern Germany may be run by a woman — Chancellor Angela Merkel, routinely called the world’s most powerful female politician — but it seems no coincidence that she is childless.
Across the developed world, a combination of the effects of birth control, social change, political progress and economic necessity has produced a tipping point: numerically, women now match or overtake men in the work force and in education.
In the developing world, too, the striving of women and girls for schooling, small loans and status is part of another immense upheaval: the rise of nations in Asia, Africa and Latin America.
In both these worlds, women can remain trapped by tradition. Now, a social revolution — peaceful, but profound — is driving a search for new ways of combining family life and motherhood with a more powerful role for women.
Westerners are quick to denounce customs in, say, the Muslim world that they perceive as limiting women. But in Germany, despite its vaunted modernity, a traditional perception of motherhood lingers.
The half-day school system survived feudalism, the rise and demise of Hitler’s mother cult, the women’s movement of the 1970s and reunification with East Germany.
Now, in the face of economic necessity, it is crumbling: one of the lowest birthrates in the world, the specter of labor shortages and slipping education standards have prompted a rethink. Since 2003, nearly a fifth of Germany’s 40,000 schools have phased in afternoon programs, and more plan to follow suit.
“This is a taboo we just can’t afford anymore; the country needs women to be able to both work and have children,” said Ursula von der Leyen, the German labor minister. A mother of seven and doctor-turned-politician, she baffles housewives and childless career women alike, not to mention many men in her Christian Democratic Union.
The spread of all-day schooling in Germany, a trend she considers “irreversible,” is a sign of the times, Ms. von der Leyen said in an interview. “The 21st century belongs to women.”
Women already form the majority of university graduates in the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, which groups 30 nations from Europe to the United States to Turkey and South Korea; this year, women will become the majority of the American work force.
Add to that an economic crisis that has hurt traditional male jobs in manufacturing harder than female ones in services — in Germany, only 10,000 of the 230,000 who have lost jobs in the slump were women — and the female factor emerges as stark.
Everywhere, women still earn less, are more likely to work part time and less likely to hold top jobs. But young female doctors, for instance, are rising in numbers, and women dominate middle management in major consumer companies. They could run the hospitals and corporations of tomorrow. Many will be family breadwinners; in Germany, every fifth household is already sustained by female income.
Working women seek not just a paycheck, but also fulfillment of ambitions, both personal and professional. “I love my son, and I love my work,” said Manuela Schwesig, 35, the new deputy leader of the opposition Social Democrats, who is the mother of a 3-year-old. “I am a more fulfilled mother for working and a more motivated politician for having a child."
Friday, January 15, 2010
The Atari2600 Joystick
Christopher Locke's Retro Tech fossils
"Hilarofustis atarium (commonly referred to as the Atari Joystick)"
Modern Fossils
Monsters and Marilyns
Jesse Lenz' Monsters and Marilyns.
And not just the stereotypical monsters like Frankenstein or Freddy, but also with Marx, Hitler and Stalin. And even Bin Laden, Castro, Michael Moore and Obama. All Warhol-style.
Jesse Lenz Website
Monday, January 4, 2010
Warped Priorities
Two days after the Salem city council approved a $25,000 gift to the Festival of Lights Parade, the Salem Repertory Theatre announced its curtains would fall for the final time after December's performance of "A Christmas Memory."
On the surface, the two incidents have little to do with each other, but they are indicative of city officials' warped priorities. Rather than bolstering a venue that provides year-round entertainment adding to Salem's cultural canvas, the city chooses to dump a huge wad of cash into a one-time parade that is essentially a mile-long commercial.
Article from "Facing the Facts" in the December 2009 issue of Salem Monthly
On the surface, the two incidents have little to do with each other, but they are indicative of city officials' warped priorities. Rather than bolstering a venue that provides year-round entertainment adding to Salem's cultural canvas, the city chooses to dump a huge wad of cash into a one-time parade that is essentially a mile-long commercial.
Article from "Facing the Facts" in the December 2009 issue of Salem Monthly
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